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Bear this in mind as you read this Introduction to the Law of Success course and it is not unreasonable to expect that this Introduction, alone, may give you sufficient understanding of the law to change the entire course of your life. It is the personalities back of a business which determine the measure of success the business will enjoy. Modify those personalities so they are more pleasing and more attractive to the patrons of the business and the business will thrive. In any of the great cities of the United States one may purchase merchandise of similar nature and price in scores of stores, yet you will find there is always one outstanding store which does more business than any of the others, and the reason for this is that back of that store is a man, or men, who has attended to the personalities of those who come in contact with the public. People buy personalities as much as merchandise, and it is a question if they are not influenced more by the personalities with which they come in contact than they are by the merchandise. Life insurance has been reduced to such a scientific basis that the cost of insurance does not vary to any great extent, regardless of the company from which one purchases it, yet out of the hundreds of life insurance companies doing business less than a dozen companies do the bulk of the business of the United States. Why? Personalities! Ninety-nine people out of every hundred who purchase life insurance policies do not know what is in their policies and, what seems more startling, do not seem to care. What they really purchase is the pleasing personality of some man or woman who knows the value of cultivating such a personality. Your business in life, or at least the most important part of it, is to achieve success. Success, within the meaning of that term as covered by this course on the Fifteen Laws of Success, is "the attainment of your Definite Chief Aim without violating the rights of other people." Regardless of what your major aim in life may be, you will attain it with much less difficulty after you learn how to cultivate a pleasing personality and after you have learned the delicate art of allying yourself with others in a given undertaking without friction or envy.
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The Overlooked And Misunderstood Secret to Happiness"Why Do Two People In Such Similar Circumstances Turn Out So Differently"
On a bright summers day, two young girls were born in the same hospital. Both were born into what were in those days called respectable and well to do families. Both were loved. Both were bright, without being exceptionally intelligent. And both were given the best education open to women, in their culture, at that time. One achieved respect, admiration and success in her career. In her personal life she lived a happy home life, raising three well balanced children. She passed away contentedly at the age of 81. |
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The other girl's life ended abruptly at the tender age of 31. Years of
depression, a catalogue of failed relationships, a series of uninspiring jobs
and general frustration and misery led her to end her life prematurely. Have you ever wondered what makes the difference in two individual's lives like this? Intelligence, background, hereditary and luck, just can't explain it. There are many stories of people overcoming every possible obstacle and still succeeding. Equally there are as many stories of those with every seeming advantage who just can't seem to stop themselves from self-destructing. What Is It That Makes The Difference? The difference between success and failure... between the life you dream of and the one you dread... is all in your head. It's the way we make sense of the world. I call this Our Human Operating System. Just as your computer needs an Operating System, such as Windows, you need a way to be able to quickly perceive, interpret and judge all the things happening in the world. So every thought you've ever had all fit together into a giant mental framework. And this mental framework influences everything you see and the way that you react to it. In other words it's the buffer between you and the world. The closer your Operating System is to reality, the more effectively you'll respond to the world. And so life becomes easier and easier. When we class someone as insane what we are really saying is that their Operating System is so distorted that they react to something that isn't true. In much the same way we make up the barriers between us and the things we want. Life is really simple with a clear Operating System. You see what you want and take it. It's just like picking an apple of a tree. However most of us make it so complicated - through our Operating Systems - that we can't find the tree anymore. Have you ever come across one of those infuriating people who just drift through life effortlessly, getting everything they want? Or more likely you've come across people who could always make money or make relationships work or some other aspect of their life. It's all down to their Operating System. The difference between... Jesus and Hitler, Buddha and a serial killer, Bill Gates and a down and out... are all down to their Operating System. It is never a question of... Is it possible for you to get what you want? Whether it's happiness, wealth or a loving relationship. Everything you want (or close to it) is already here or you couldn't imagine it. Other people have found their way to it. And so can you. The question is only... Can you steer yourself to what you want? And the answer to that question depends on whether or not you can upgrade that area of your Operating System. The path that will take you to where you want to be... has to be travelled in your head. As you do this you'll start to make the decisions that will lead you to the things you want. If you're off the path mentally, it doesn't matter how hard or honestly you try... you'll still fail. The decisions you make will lead you to failure, to debt, conflict and so on. They'll push people away from you. Money too. And the rest of the stuff you want. The basis for the path you choose is the sum total of wisdom you've picked up through your life. Everything depends on this. The difference between a deathbed filled with regrets and unfulfilled potential or a fully lived life depends entirely on the quality of your Operating System. Now if everything in your life depends on your Operating System, isn't every upgrade or improvement vital? You can get some of the secrets I have learned after 11 years of intense study, trial and error research with thousands of Clients. You can get this information right now - for free. You don't even need to leave your email address. But I do recommend that you do. This site has about three hundred pages of information on it. Sign up below and I'll take you through this information step by step so it can make a difference to your life. Plus, I'll send you updates, special offers and Case Studies to make it easier to apply these insights to your circumstances. Sign up in the box below for your step by step guide to happiness. I won't abuse, sell, rent or share your email address. Every email I ever send has a link to unsubscribe in seconds.
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